Just recently, there seemed to be a misunderstanding in between my group members as well as certain members of the other group. Well, I shouldn't be talking bad about people and I shall refrain myself from doing so. However, I would like to take the chance to encourage those who are facing selfish or bitchy people out there either in the working field or in school.
People aren't flawless, this was what God made us to be. He knows we aren't perfect and so should we. At certain points of time in our lives, we'll face some selfish people who criticize and give negative comments and yet, fail to give constructive feedback. I mean, if you have any ideas to improve the tasks at hand, your comments are greatly welcomed. I'll accept them humbly and if your comments are good, I'll give you the credit you deserve. Many superiors do that as well. Unfortunately, some people will only criticize and refuse to do any work for you, just cause they feel that your ideas are ridiculous to them.
University may seem like the place for "mature" people to attend, where there is a certain level of responsibility within everyone. Well, it's time to wake up from such thought. University isn't that brilliant after all. Some people are still very immature and irresponsible. I'm not going to start pointing fingers, but I must say it's natural for having selfish people to be around. I just feel that such people make the selfless people stand out more. Well, if you ever do meet such people, please refrain from scolding them. It's just not worth the effort. Talk to them nicely and get them to understand where the goals for the project are set at. If they turn a deaf ear to you, it just means they didn't take this project seriously and you can really just don't give a damn to them. You have already done what you can; to ask them to be serious. In the long run, such selfish people will be the ones suffering.
So my advice to all those out there, even my friends who are reading this post, don't let selfish people make your blood boil. HAHAHA :D Just laugh it off and continue with life.
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